CHANCE OR CHOICE?

When you meet the right person to love, at the right place, at the right time, that’s CHANCE.

When you meet someone you’re attracted to, that’s CHANCE, too.

Knowing that there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter, richer, than your mate, and yet you decide to love your mate just the same, that’s a CHOICE.

Attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice.

Listen: "Fate brings us together, but it’s still up to you to make it happen. We may meet someone by chance, but loving and staying with that someone is still a choice".

HAVE YOU EVER?

Have you ever experienced a time in your life when you felt so empty for no reason?

Have you ever felt so down but you just can’t tell why?
Have you ever felt like the world suddenly spins around and you are caught in the middle going nowhere?
Weird, isn’t it?
But that is the beauty of being human…
It is knowing that there is a purpose for each existence…and whatever that may be, it is also the reason why we still wake up breathing each morning…to discover that missing piece of the puzzle that would make our lives complete…

FOUR PEOPLE YOU WILL MEET IN LIFE

My cellphone buzzed, and from a friend with unlimited texting credits, I got this message:

FOUR PEOPLE YOU WILL MEET IN LIFE:

1st is yourself;

2nd is the one you love the most;

3rd is the one who loves you the most;

and the 4th is the one you spend the rest of your life with.

Sadly in real life, these 3 people are usually not the same person.

The one you love most, doesn't love you...

The one who loves you most, is never the one you love most...

and the one you spend your life with, is never the one you love most or the one who loves you most;

S/He is just the person who happens to be at the right place, at the right time...

Isn't it true? How sad is the fact that most marriages happen not because of "true love", but rather because the persons involved just wanted to "settle down"...and that most of us go through life never really finding our "soul mate", and we end up sharing our life with the wrong person who just happened to be at the right place, at the right time; but we just learn to love, and teach our hearts to love anyway, and never realize that we missed that one great love supposed to be meant for each person's lifetime...

Deep down inside, in the farthest reaches of our mind, and in the most secret corners of our hearts, there is something missing, but we deny and ignore it, and try to fill that void with the everyday details of our mundane existence until we reach the end of our lives convinced that we have lived a full and happy life.

And so we die, and for those who have not found their soulmates, it is said they are reborn so they may go through life once more and try to find their "missing half"...to search all over again...
So, what's the point of it all? Especially since these days, it's freakin' hard to find somebody to "settle down" with, much less a "soul mate" who simply "rocks" your world and sends sparks of electricity all over your body, mind, and soul. Just how long will you search? Or should you wait? How in the world do you recognize your soul mate?

Aw, sheesh! Who the heck knows? Not I, that's for certain. Cause, well, you know, I AM still searching...